Tuesday 5 August 2008

Love , Sex and Marriage


I must write about Love, Sex and Marriage. Young people want guidance about love, sex, and marriage. In every century people want to know about Love, Sex and Marriage. Love and Sex are the nature of the human body or the nature of all creations. The love of males is different. Female thinks about love differently. Male wants to create, and female wants to bring the child to the universe. But, in each creation or species, it is the same.
Marriage is created later on by human society to stop the production of bastards. Sociologists proved that marriage is a better method to maintain the growth of society in a better way. Society can progress better by marital life. Women or females alone can not protect children. So marriage or bond of male or female helped to create a better society.
Sex and the Stomach are two main causes of war. Sex or greed can never be satisfied. Sex is due to food. Food creates energy with the help of vitamins, minerals, or amino acids. This energy can be better utilized to develop brain power or extra power like Hanuman. If you can not control sex, then you can create problems in society. Sex causes drainage of power created by food. Vegetarian Food is considered better than non-vegetarian food, as per Geeta. Sex worker helps the society to maintain peace. Due to Sex workers, humans are different than animals. I respect them. Sex is not a love emotion. Sex is like the satisfaction of hunger with food. Love is different. Marriage or the purpose of marriage is different. Read Srimad Bhagwat Geeta by Author

Love is different. I have written in one of my articles why did I fail. Please read that for love. I like the love of Savitri and Satyavan. Such a type of love is scarce in this selfish world. I love someone ( Say X ). Someone ( Say Y ) loves me ( Say, X ). I marry someone else ( Say Z ). I had sex with ( Say a, b, and c ). I am giving these examples to make them easy to understand. I am not an expert like Shoba De or Khushwant Singh. I am not a writer. I am only trying to tell the next generation that Love, Sex, and Marriage are different aspects of life. Do not get confused. Treat love as a gift given by God. I have met only one or two people who could marry those whom they loved and died with them. Most of them forgot love within 3 months or 3 years of marriage. Later on, marriage was only an act of compromise for children's sake or for the sake of selfish compulsions. Sex is a need for the body for youth and up to certain age. Contract Marriage is an example in many societies. Age for sex varies with the food habits and positions of planets. The effect of Mars and Venus on sexual life can be read in my Astrology. With good and rich food and body exercises, one can have a better sex life. For longer life, one should control sexual desires. Once youth asked me about premarital sex or about having sex before marriage or losing virginity. I replied that nothing is good or bad. One should not exploit others' sentiments. One should not deceive someone. One should be fair, and one should be truthful. But I know many boys want sex for the sake of fun. Sex is, for them, a game. No sincerity. It is nature. Females have to bear children. She has to create life. She has to give the child milk. She has to teach new creation art of living. For females, it is not fun. Now with new family planning methods, sex has become more common. Sex is only a Saturday dream for working men or women.

So Sex, Love, and Marriage are all different aspects of life. One should not mix it. One should not get confused with the other's sweet words. Once I met one married woman who wanted to have sex always with new young boys. She thought that by this, she can maintain her young body. It is false. One can maintain her body by control on desire only. Desire can never be satisfied. So one should know how to control desire. Hunger for Sex or Wealth can never be satisfied.
Later on, I realized that It is not in our hands. We are only puppets in the hand of destiny. Planets affect our life. So we must worship these planets. We are human beings. Souls are moving in this cosmic universe. These souls are more powerful. So we are their playthings or toys.
So Sex is one part of life. Love is a different part of human life. Marriage is totally for a different purpose.